Site Rules

Whether doing RP or generally chatting, some rules should be followed. Before even going into the rules the most important thing to remember is that this is for fun. This isn't a job or an obligation or anything else. This is not a place for so-called serious role players to argue about rules and definitions. Stories are fun, make believe is fun, don't loose sight of that in rules.

The Rules

1. . Don't troll, for anything. People, sex, RP, information, favors, lols, etc..
2. . We do allow server ads, but you must be an active player (your rank must be at least Regent). All ads must go in #server-ads, ads can only be posted once per month, do not delete #. your previous ad.
3. . Respect all players. This means we do not tolerate racism, sexism, bullying, or otherwise offensive behavior directed at other players or groups of people.
4. . Do not copy/paste RP or non-RP content from players anywhere else.
5. . Respect whether or not a channel is IC or OOC.
6. . Don't abuse the bots.
7. . Staff does not deal in drama.
8. . Respect stories.
9. . Erotic RP should be kept in private or in #naughty-wings.
10. . Adult content (images, links, or other media) should be kept in #media-nsfw.
11. . Links and media that are considers to be SFW should be kept to #media.
12. . Speak up, no one has responsibility for you but you.
13. . All characters require approval before playing for new players. See here for details.
14. . Players threatening the staff are not welcome. If you cannot be friendly, we wish you well finding in a different environment more suited to your temperament.

Trolling

Trolling is not tolerated. Sometimes it is fun, sometimes it is entertaining, but it is never a good idea. Don't troll for anything, at all. While there is a definite line between engaging in discussion, asking if people want to play, being a bit contrary (or playing devils advocate), respect is key. If you are caught trolling except an immediate response.

A word about trolling an in character play. We have all seen people who act like a troll even in real life. The guy at the party who just seems to want to pick a fight or goes from girl to girl trying to get someone drunk. If your character is a bit of a troll, that is fine. However, expect in character reactions as such. server staff will not get involved in in character disputes between players as a general rule. If a staff member is forced to, please be aware that it will not be pleasant for anyone involved.

Respect

Respect is a key idea in everything. We do not tolerate rampant disrespect. This doesn't mean that you have to like everyone! This simply means that you've got to have some notion of how to treat people. If you don't want to play with someone, don't. No one is forcing you. But same goes in reverse. If someone doesn't want to RP with you, respect that. Let them RP in the channel without having to worry about someone inserting themselves into a story where they are not wanted.

Communication is key, if someone is doing something, saying something, or otherwise upsetting you. Communicate it to them, be clear, friendly, and respectful. This goes for RP as well, when discussing (or participating in) a story / game, respect your other players. No one is perfect, most people aren't trying to upset anyone. The basic rule of thumb is do not engage. Hot button debates that really upset you - do not engage unless you can be respectful of those with different view points. This includes if you can't understand how anyone can say or feel in some way. You don't have to agree, don't have to approve, but you do have to make a choice to engage in a respectful way or just stay out of it.

The basic idea here is that we are all the same. People. Treat anyone here as you would like to be treated. I hate to have to put this in, but apparently it doesn't stand to reason for everyone. Just to be clear, respecting other people means don't be a dick. Don't sling racist slurs, sexist comments, make fun of someone because of who they are. We will not tolerate someone who cannot get the point that everyone is welcome. Treat everyone in the way that you would want to be treated, that is really all you have to do. If a staff member asks you to cut it out or that you are potentially being offensive, please just quietly do so.

A quick final note about privacy before going onto the next section. We all post things to chats that it is possible we'll regret later. Sometimes it is impossible to see how we might regret something a few days later, a few weeks, etc.. As such anyone playing on the server should feel safe posting what they wish. This means that it is strictly prohibited to take content from this server and post it elsewhere. By extension, do not post private content public and do not share public content privately or publicly via other mediums. This is especially true of erotic or near-erotic content. We all know that this content can be damaging to a person and thus we take even the threat of public disclosure seriously.

Don't Abuse the Bots

Our server has bots in it. These bots have various functions that can come in handy but they are tools. Sometimes they are tools for our amusement and sometimes they are tools to facilitate role playing. Just as you don't play with a jig saw (and if you do, stop doing that) don't make overuse of the bots. By that, we would like it if you wouldn't use the bots to flood a channel with nonsense or random images, etc.. If enough people would like a channel dedicated to such things as memes and video links, ask and ye shall receive.

IC/OOC Status

Always respect the current status of a channel. Please keep the Out of Character channel free of In Character chatter and keep the In Character channels as free from OOC Chatter as possible. This just makes for a cleaner experience for all, and less confusing. One should note that our server bots will respond in channel, so please don't use commands in IC channels whenever possible.

Drama

Along with respect and trolling is a primer of drama. Keep the channel drama free. Most issues of drama can be reduced by following the rules of respect and trolling. The server staff do not want to deal with drama. We don't want to be in the middle of it, we don't want to see it, and we don't really want to know about it. If it becomes a problem the general rule is that both parties (for right or wrong) will be held accountable. And this isn't going to be accountable or their actions to each other. To put it simply, the ops don't care. This is held accountable for making the ops wade through drama to put and end to it.

That being said, this is a role playing channel and site. OOC drama between players is not something we ever want. However, IC drama between characters is a different matter entirely. drama in a story provides clash, motivation, and fun things within a story. It is only the kind between players (rather than characters) that we don't want to deal with.

Stories

Respect stories! Stories take time to come up with, to plan, to plot out, outline, and otherwise compose. If a story is going on, a little message OOC to one or more players can be handy before getting involved. Players have the rights to their story lines! This is kind of important. No one wants hard work thrown away because someone else comes in and screw things up.

If you do request that someone let you participate in a story they have already got going, deal with them as if they are the moderator of their own story. If they say that it's OK for you to join but they'd rather not you do something - even if it seems you should be able to, or you really want to, or even your character really wants to, fudge it a bit and respect the players guidelines. Don't get pushy and don't try to take over. If you're asked to back off, back off. If they want Bob in a story but they don't want you in a story, the worst possible idea is to get upset about why Bob is allowed but you're not. It sounds childish. Find another story.

The Fudge

The fudge is what I like to call the group of things that fit together OK as long as a person doesn't look too carefully at where they meet up. Such things have to be fudged we try not to fudge too much but when met with a choice on which is more important, details or rules and such, we kind of paint over the ugly bits with tasty delicious fudge.

Not everything has to be exact. Try and keep the fudge to a minimum a work more with writing around such problems, a bit of extra detail, elaborating on details that really get two ragged edges of bits of story to meet up and mesh well together. Sometimes, however, somewhere in the background there are bits which just do not mesh together and re-writing them might unravel even more things rather than tie up a few loose ends. Areas like that may require some amount of fudging to work.

Adult Content

Adult content is judged under the common man approach, that is to say on average would what is being posted, talked about, or otherwise presented fall into the category of adult content when presented to a random common person off the street. This definition is, of one can imagine, flexible. For the purposes of our server we care about adult content in what is being posted either to a role play (as in Erotic Role Play) or images, links, or any other media of an adult nature. In an effort to maintain an environment where everyone is comfortable we have dedicated areas for each of this and do ask that adult content be relegated to these areas. For links, images, videos, and other forms of media we have set aside #media-nsfw for use as a general catch-all for adult non-RP content. If you'd like to gain access to the adult areas, a player must specifically request it from the the staff. We work under the honor system, if you say you're of legal age, we assume you are. If you then later prove you cannot handle adult content (or that you are not of legal age), we reserve the right to restrict your access solely based on the judgement of the server staff.

Erotic role playing can be a lot of fun, but it can also turn off a lot of people, we have a dedicated channel for ERP (Erotic Role Play) #naughty-wings. You must specifically ask to be granted access to this channel. The channel is visible to anyone who has the Adult Access role, its history is visible to anyone with that role as well and should be considered public. That being said, it is strictly against the rules to take content from any ERP and post it elsewhere without permission. Doing so could result in a permanent ban from the server.

We really cannot emphasis the idea of respect too strongly here. Erotic scenes can be fun but a lot of people are just not interested. If someone declines either in IC or OOC, respect it. While IC, this can be one of those times when the before-mentioned fudge comes into play. Some people have characters that may not be the most respectful in the world and some people may play characters who wouldn't take no for an answer. That's fine, but when actually in game, we do not accept non-consensual play. If you get turned down, deal with it. Period. If you don't understand why, click here to talk about tea. Should you and another player wish to engage in a scene of non-consensual play, please do this in private as Discord offers an extremely robust way to maintain private communications with anyone you like.

Since we have a dedicated channel for ERP, it is understood that sexual activity in the main channel is prohibited. It just makes for a mixed bag and we strive to be open and accepting to all role players of any kind. I know that some people would really like to engage in public sex acts but unfortunately in an effort to be as inviting as possible to all people, we do not allow this.

Taking Office / Speaking Up

This is kind of important.

It is up to you, at any time you are offended or upset by something, to speak up if you think it warrants it. Staff will not guess or speculate on what might be offended. We prefer that people handle their differences between each other but if that doesn't seem like a good idea, please speak up to a staff member and we will try to help.

That first bit being said, we try to make sure everyone feels welcome. At some point, something may happen where a staff member or a person may ask you to stop talking about something in the channel. Please respect that, usually it is for a good reason and not aimed at you out of personal reasons.